Oh the perils of love and the infatuation of lust. Both beautiful places to be in, but imperative that you distinguish the two. Continue Reading
Self Love
Being stuck somewhere in any scenario, I believe is the worst place to be. Especially if that place turns out to be your comfort zone. Comfort zones are insidious in that without you even realizing, years could go by without one recognizing where they’ve been stagnant in. Where they’ve been stuck. Continue Reading
Disclaimer: if you’re not single, this post isn’t for you, but you’re welcome to dive in at your leisure. However, I will ask that you send this to a single friend you know because this post is for her. For the her that currently or has at some point experienced my exact sentiments. Baby girl, this one’s for you. Enjoy.
Last year, I was so consumed with connection. Pause. Am I the only person loving how good saying last year feels? No, it’s not just a me thing? It feels so good to have a clean slate and refer to past actions as the past because quite literally those actions were in the past, last year and all. In any case back to the original direction of today’s blog post — I’m not too big or too shy to admit that. I was so consumed with connection. Too consumed with finding my person and dating with intention.
It happens to the best of us, being triggered that is. Whether it be emotionally, physically, or both — we have all encountered things that have been harmful to the maintenance of peace within ourselves.
It’s one thing to accomplish falling in love with yourself, but the real feat? The part that’s never really discussed is how to stay in love with yourself, once you fall. I thought about myself when I wrote today’s post, so this one is especially near and dear to me y’all. No, scratch that. I thought about us all and the vulnerability that comes with not being at your best sometimes. Which ultimately makes staying in love with yourself that much harder. Continue Reading