Dating is exhausting. Meeting different men and having some of the same conversations over and over again is just… wow. It’s quite literally one of the most exhausting things I’ve done in the past couple of years.
It’s like you both are mutually interested in one another at one point and then poof, you’re not.
Are you proud of you?
Do you pat yourself on the back when you do well or disregard an achievement, already looking forward to the next one?
Do you take out the time to bask in the joy that comes over us all when you reach out and can touch where you’ve always wanted to be — the place that once seemed so out of touch?
The answer is no. In no way shape or form am I Sugarbaby material. I thought I’d make that clear before diving into being offered the role of someone’s Sugarbaby a few weeks ago + why I politely declined.
I mean I’m not new to the term, but for those of you who are and not familiar with “Sugarbaby” and its counterparts — let me bring you up to speed.
If the TV show “Girlfriends” created and produced by Mara Brock Akil taught us anything, it was that us women could seriously benefit from a group of good girlfriends. Continue Reading
You’ve been dating someone and y’all have been going through the motions. Y’all continue to get a better understanding of each other on all fronts as you guys have: dinner dates, movies, sleepovers, and so forth.
As time has seemed to pass you by, you realize that you haven’t really defined what it is you’ve immersed yourself into. I mean it’s been months of spending time with this person and you have no idea where you are with them.
Are y’all in a relationship or have you stumbled into a situationship of sorts? Continue Reading
