It’s one thing to accomplish falling in love with yourself, but the real feat? The part that’s never really discussed is how to stay in love with yourself, once you fall. I thought about myself when I wrote today’s post, so this one is especially near and dear to me y’all. No, scratch that. I thought about us all and the vulnerability that comes with not being at your best sometimes. Which ultimately makes staying in love with yourself that much harder. Continue Reading
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Oh the beauty of music that feeds the soul. Around to comfort us in one breath and help us express ourselves in the next. In today’s post I simply want to shine the light on music that feeds the soul in moments of sadness/heartache, feelings of love, the desire for God’s guidance & love, and overall joy. I can only help that this blog post finds you well & you enjoy it half as much as I enjoyed writing it.
Some of us have been blessed to find our equals early on in life. I’m talking high school (or as early as middle school), so you have never had to date. Or you may have even found your special someone as recently as a few years back. All of which no longer requires you to date. However, the truth about dating? Most of the time, it’s going to suck. Especially in your 20’s. Continue Reading
Happy Juneteenth y’all! Hold on, I don’t think they heard me in the back. HAPPY JUNETEENTH Y’ALL. I always get so lit on Juneteenth because it’s a day where my community comes together to celebrate. To show joy like never before. Many of us spend time with family, prepare food for the neighborhood cookout while Frankie Beverly & Maze’s Before I Let Go plays in the background. Not familiar with those two? Well it’s the “you make me haaaappy, this you can tell” song. Continue Reading
Hi guys and happy Wednesday. Ever since incorporating dating advice into WithLoveThelms.com — I’ve noticed something.
You guys love it.
Though I’m not sure where you are in your own personal life (married, single, actively dating — like myself, or trying to get ready for your next), I’m so glad that you guys are loving it.
In light of that, in today’s post I’m diving deeper into, Why Phone Calls Beat Texting When Dating.
Hope y’all enjoy! Continue Reading