Some of us have been blessed to find our equals early on in life. I’m talking high school (or as early as middle school), so you have never had to date. Or you may have even found your special someone as recently as a few years back. All of which no longer requires you to date. However, the truth about dating? Most of the time, it’s going to suck. Especially in your 20’s. Continue Reading
We’re not taught this and we should be. Talking yourself off a ledge that is. We should be taught that when we’re too close to the edge, taking a step back is vital. That we need to save ourselves from the doom that awaits us when we step off the ledge. The pain that will surely be ours if we don’t take a second to think, to breathe. Why aren’t we taught this at an early age? Instead we are taught “survival skills”. I’m talking every possible way to survive when there’s a shortage of food, water, or shelter. But again I ask, why aren’t we being taught how to combat, hell to survive wars within ourselves? Continue Reading
Someone recently asked me, what season am I in? Season meaning, was I in a place of forgiveness, self awareness, growth, change, etc.
I loved that question because it’s not asked often enough even though it should be. Continue Reading
Happy Juneteenth y’all! Hold on, I don’t think they heard me in the back. HAPPY JUNETEENTH Y’ALL. I always get so lit on Juneteenth because it’s a day where my community comes together to celebrate. To show joy like never before. Many of us spend time with family, prepare food for the neighborhood cookout while Frankie Beverly & Maze’s Before I Let Go plays in the background. Not familiar with those two? Well it’s the “you make me haaaappy, this you can tell” song. Continue Reading
Hi guys and happy Wednesday. Ever since incorporating dating advice into WithLoveThelms.com — I’ve noticed something.
You guys love it.
Though I’m not sure where you are in your own personal life (married, single, actively dating — like myself, or trying to get ready for your next), I’m so glad that you guys are loving it.
In light of that, in today’s post I’m diving deeper into, Why Phone Calls Beat Texting When Dating.
Hope y’all enjoy! Continue Reading
