“been a minute, but I’m back — I wasn’t finished so there’s that.”
It’s the self formulated quote that kept making its presence known in my head (thinking it only right to use it as my caption for my photo detailing my return to the ‘gram lol — we’re about to get deep so I figure we’d bring some light to things before the waters get a little treacherous) as I contemplated a few things:
Let’s hear it for the almost relationships. The ones that seemed like they could turn into something magical. That we were sure if able to survive the treacherous dating phase, would surely set our love life on fire. The ones with individuals that we believed (even for the slightest of seconds) could have been our forever.
Since the day I was born, my parents have always drummed in my head the importance of first impressions. I guess there was always this unspoken rule that the way you meet someone is how they’ll remember you. I’d always believed that to be true, until something changed my mind recently. Which in turn made me realize, why first impressions aren’t as crucial as they used to be.
When life doesn’t go as planned, my darling trust the reroute. Trust that at times the plans we have may not be the plan HE has for our life & that of our future. Continue Reading
So you go out for drinks with the girls and BAM. A guy comes out of left field who’s been apparently watching you the whole night. He finally gets up the nerve to strike up conversation. He’s doing the usual spiel guys do when they’re trying to get you talking. With the ultimate goal being to score your number. You give it to him because you’re just as interested.
Then a few days go by and something’s different. Or even after a few weeks, you notice a change.
A few tell tale signs begin to make you realize that you may be more into him than he’s into you.
