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4 SIGNS THAT YOU’RE MORE INTO HIM THAN HE’S INTO YOU

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So you go out for drinks with the girls and BAM. A guy comes out of left field who’s been apparently watching you the whole night. He finally gets up the nerve to strike up conversation. He’s doing the usual spiel guys do when they’re trying to get you talking. With the ultimate goal being to score your number. You give it to him because you’re just as interested.

Then a few days go by and something’s different. Or even after a few weeks, you notice a change.

A few tell tale signs begin to make you realize that you may be more into him than he’s into you.

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WHY PHONE CALLS BEAT TEXTING WHEN DATING

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Hi guys and happy Wednesday. Ever since incorporating dating advice into WithLoveThelms.com — I’ve noticed something.

You guys love it.

Though I’m not sure where you are in your own personal life (married, single, actively dating — like myself, or trying to get ready for your next), I’m so glad that you guys are loving it.

In light of that, in today’s post I’m diving deeper into, Why Phone Calls Beat Texting When Dating.

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IS IT REALLY POSSIBLE TO BE FRIENDS WITH AN EX?

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When you go through a breakup, it feels like the worst thing that could ever happen. You fight with the idea of really being okay with that person no longer being a part of your life. It’s an all out uphill battle as you picture your life without them and the ways you’ll have to fight to get over them. Sometimes I wonder if because of that we’re so open to the idea of friendships with our exes. I ponder if that’s the reason many of us think it’s possible to be friends with an ex. Continue Reading

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BOUNDARIES YOUR MAN’S EX WOMAN SHOULD RESPECT

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I can’t believe I have to write a post about this, about boundaries. But y’all we are in an era where the exes are just not getting it and because of that the demise of relationships are happening everywhere. I can’t even begin to explain to you all how many times I have seen an ex step out of her lane. Thinking that it’s appropriate to do certain things or behave a certain way when communicating with her former man, who is now your (my) man. If it’s not a text message saying “wyd” past 7pm, it’s a “Good morning” text before the sun rises. Neither of them being okay to send to a man who is with someone else. Don’t they get it? Their former man is taken. He is with someone else now and y’all are happy. Thriving in a way that doesn’t welcome distraction, disrespect, or other people. Exes included.

So without further ado, lets jump straight into things shall we? Today’s post is for the boundaries your man’s ex woman should respect. Hell needs to respect if we’re getting literal.  Continue Reading

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WHY IT’S SO HARD FOR MOST WOMEN TO MAKE THE FIRST MOVE

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As much as the times call for women empowerment and taking charge, there is a significant deficit when it comes to applying such sentiments to dating and women making the first move. Whether, it’s the fear of rejection. Or it’s the traditional mindset you were raised with. Most women prefer NOT to make the first move. In today’s post, I’m sharing my thoughts on why it’s so hard for most women to make the first move, advice on putting yourself out there and just doing it + my personal experiences.

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