The answer is no. In no way shape or form am I Sugarbaby material. I thought I’d make that clear before diving into being offered the role of someone’s Sugarbaby a few weeks ago + why I politely declined.
I mean I’m not new to the term, but for those of you who are and not familiar with “Sugarbaby” and its counterparts — let me bring you up to speed.
Have you ever looked at the life you’ve led so far and want to turn back the clock — the hand of time.
Not to change major things, but the small things — the things that seemed so insignificant at the time.
“been a minute, but I’m back — I wasn’t finished so there’s that.”
It’s the self formulated quote that kept making its presence known in my head (thinking it only right to use it as my caption for my photo detailing my return to the ‘gram lol — we’re about to get deep so I figure we’d bring some light to things before the waters get a little treacherous) as I contemplated a few things:
Practicing the art of not giving a fuck ($!%&) is actually harder than most people think. It takes a certain amount of effort and resilience to go against caring about the thoughts or opinions of others.
If the TV show “Girlfriends” created and produced by Mara Brock Akil taught us anything, it was that us women could seriously benefit from a group of good girlfriends. Continue Reading
