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BOUNDARIES YOUR MAN’S EX WOMAN SHOULD RESPECT

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I can’t believe I have to write a post about this, about boundaries. But y’all we are in an era where the exes are just not getting it and because of that the demise of relationships are happening everywhere. I can’t even begin to explain to you all how many times I have seen an ex step out of her lane. Thinking that it’s appropriate to do certain things or behave a certain way when communicating with her former man, who is now your (my) man. If it’s not a text message saying “wyd” past 7pm, it’s a “Good morning” text before the sun rises. Neither of them being okay to send to a man who is with someone else. Don’t they get it? Their former man is taken. He is with someone else now and y’all are happy. Thriving in a way that doesn’t welcome distraction, disrespect, or other people. Exes included.

So without further ado, lets jump straight into things shall we? Today’s post is for the boundaries your man’s ex woman should respect. Hell needs to respect if we’re getting literal.  Continue Reading

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WHY CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM ISN’T FOR THE FAINT & WEARY

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Some people just can’t take it.

Constructive criticism that is. I’m not sure if it’s because the very things pointed out by someone that loves you are things you’ve always thought about yourself. Or maybe it’s the notion that someone pointed out something that needs to be changed before you got a chance to start working on it internally. That is of course, so others could notice the change externally. Hell, it might even be that you were under the impression you were doing a wonderful job of hiding those character flaws.

In any event, it’s why I believe constructive criticism isn’t for the faint and weary. Continue Reading

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CHOOSE MYSELF

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I should choose myself sometimes.

I don’t mean in the way you choose girls night over staying in. Or ramen over takeout. I mean like really choosing yourself in a way that makes a significant impact in your life. Putting your needs above everybody else’s. Continue Reading

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GO TO WAR WITH YOUR DEMONS

Go to War With Your Demons

I don’t care what anyone says. We all have demons. Not in the spiritual sense that questions the strength of your faith or the amount of Christianity you possess. No, not that kind. I’m talking about the figurative demons that represent other things in your life. The demons that act as the face of: insecurity, depression, anger issues, severe anxiety, lack of self love, jealousy, and a number of other things. Whether they rear its ugly head every now and then. Or are increasingly present in your day to day life. The truth of the matter is if we’re not careful those same demons will lead to our ultimate downfall. Continue Reading