Shouldn’t we all be though? Ever since Ariana Grande’s hit single, Thank You Next became privy to the world — it’s all us girls have been chanting. Or singing rather.
One reason being, the song is super catchy so how could you not.
The second reason? In some ways being grateful for your ex beats holding on to pent up hatred or resentment.
Have you ever heard that before? “Comparison is the thief of joy” that is.
I hadn’t till a friend of mine posted the quote on her instastory. So naturally I reposted it to mine because, duh. Social media and something with meaning making an impact obviously. I mean there has always been this understanding that it’s never good to compare yourself to the next person. However, I had never seen it written out in such a simple, but impactful way. Continue Reading
Good afternoon babes! So how’s 2019 been treating you guys so far?! Although we’re all only two full days in, it’s worth inquiring about. If you’re like me — many of you have come up with ways (or rather resolutions) to get a jump on making 2019 a year of improvement and growth.
The problem is as much as we try, we’re only human. Meaning, making resolutions is the easy part. Sticking to them? Another battle of its own. However, because I’m so down for making this year one of growth and prosperity (FOR US ALL), I have something for y’all. In today’s post I’m sharing tips on how to make sticking to your new year’s resolutions a priority.
SCREAMING HAPPY NEW YEAR BABES + clinking my glass and softly saying, “Cheers to 2019.”
You guuuuuys. It’s officially the new year! Can y’all believe it? Honestly I can’t. It usually takes me a little bit to come to terms with the fact that it’s officially a new year. However, I’m excited as ever to get a fresh start. There is something so beautiful about the new year. Mainly because it spans farther than it just being a new month. Baby it’s a new freaking YEAR. We all get a chance to do things differently and make necessary changes that could affect our lives in the greatest of ways.
I once met a man I knew I wanted to love.
He was charismatic, but kind,
Hard, but damn fine
He knew his way in the kitchen to that I could attest,
making it hard for me to compare his capabilities to the rest.
He was the kind of man who warmed me up when I was cold,
simple things that gave way to getting to the depths of my soul.
So it stands to reason that this man was someone I’d always knew I wanted to know.
Because as a child, I had pictured,
A man that was charismatic and just as kind,
who brought more to the table than just a few smooth lines.
He’d be a listener who’d catch every word I’d say,
letting me run my mouth to no end, but right there he would stay.
Not to be confused, I would be his support system just as much as he’d be mine.
With an unshakeable foundation,
prepared to stand the test of time.
That’s what I’d always wanted for myself,
this I could never deny.
And to think I met him, then later questioned why.
Here’s the thing about meeting the man I knew I wanted to love.
I never said finding then keeping him,
wouldn’t be a challenge all on its own.
Thelms
