Oh the woes of cuffing season when you’re single. You go through phases where you’re wanting to be cuffed up and entertained to loving every second of spending time with yourself — by yourself. However, when the feeling of wanting to be cuffed takes over more often than not — our desire for companionship makes the possibility of making foolish decisions that much greater.
Foolish decisions such as revisiting the ex that in most cases should stay an ex.
Practicing the art of not giving a fuck ($!%&) is actually harder than most people think. It takes a certain amount of effort and resilience to go against caring about the thoughts or opinions of others.
Let’s hear it for the almost relationships. The ones that seemed like they could turn into something magical. That we were sure if able to survive the treacherous dating phase, would surely set our love life on fire. The ones with individuals that we believed (even for the slightest of seconds) could have been our forever.
It’s one thing to accomplish falling in love with yourself, but the real feat? The part that’s never really discussed is how to stay in love with yourself, once you fall. I thought about myself when I wrote today’s post, so this one is especially near and dear to me y’all. No, scratch that. I thought about us all and the vulnerability that comes with not being at your best sometimes. Which ultimately makes staying in love with yourself that much harder. Continue Reading
Have you ever wondered why you attract who you attract? Or why you’re attracted to who you’re attracted to? & not just in the physical sense. I’m talking the entirety of the person. Like really analyzed why certain people peak your interest and others don’t? Continue Reading
