Hi everyone and anyone. Is anybody still here?
It’s been a while since I’ve actually sat down and written out my thoughts. Shared what I’m thinking or life experiences that I’ve seen those I love experience. I haven’t written a single thought in a while.
Which is very unlike me because at my core I love to write. After all, it’s my favorite way to express, to share. It’s how I learned to be vulnerable best.
Dating is exhausting. Meeting different men and having some of the same conversations over and over again is just… wow. It’s quite literally one of the most exhausting things I’ve done in the past couple of years.
It’s like you both are mutually interested in one another at one point and then poof, you’re not.
Are you proud of you?
Do you pat yourself on the back when you do well or disregard an achievement, already looking forward to the next one?
Do you take out the time to bask in the joy that comes over us all when you reach out and can touch where you’ve always wanted to be — the place that once seemed so out of touch?
The answer is no. In no way shape or form am I Sugarbaby material. I thought I’d make that clear before diving into being offered the role of someone’s Sugarbaby a few weeks ago + why I politely declined.
I mean I’m not new to the term, but for those of you who are and not familiar with “Sugarbaby” and its counterparts — let me bring you up to speed.
Women learn the most about themselves between the ages of 16 – 25, sometimes before, during, and at times after marriage. At least I’d like to think so. It’s a vital time that shapes the friend you’ll be, the type of mother to kids you’ll rear, and the wife you’ll be to your soulmate. Naturally there are things that are beneficial to learn before entering into a sacred union, such as marriage. Of course, that can’t always be the case and in some instances we have to learn through marriage. However, for those of you babes who haven’t embarked on that next phase of life — this post is for you. Meant to serve as a reminder of all you should be and do for yourself before walking down the aisle with your beloved. So in today’s post I want to shed some light on 8 Things Every Woman Must Learn Before Marriage.
Enjoy.
