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DATING: A WOMAN’S PERSPECTIVE

I can’t be the only woman who feels like dating in this era is absolute wildness. From the men who don’t know what they want to the boys who think they do. Dating in your 20s feels a lot like being a competitor in the 400m dash — passing no good men up until you reach the finish line (with the man of your dreams). A stretch in comparison? Maybe, but hey dating is tough and I’ve been going at it with intent for almost 4 months and I’m TIRED y’all.

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Girl’s Guide to Toronto

Who’s ready for a Girl’s Guide to Toronto?! I feel like it’s been forever since we’ve had a good chat. From working, to booking trips, jetting off to Cancun and just coming back from Toronto — it’s been one heck of a few weeks.

But I’m BACK from it all and excited to share my most recent trip to Toronto with you babes.

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Poetry Pieces

BETTER DAYS

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Better days are ahead I promise, try not to let the world leave you down and out,

This poetry piece is meant to be that reminder, keep this close and remember I had no doubts.

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CATCHING A CHEATER: TO TELL OR NOT TO TELL

catching a cheater
Disclaimer: the topic of today’s post has been discussed at great length as of recently. From the Steve Harvey show, to instagram with all you babes, and even at work with my coworkers. Nothing I say here is law, but an opinion of mine only. My opinion isn’t meant to be taken as the end all be all and I hope you babes don’t take it as such.

Now that I’ve gotten the nitty out of the way, shall we get to the gritty?

Catching a cheater is no easy feat, but when you do? The mechanics of the after can get a bit tricky.

In previous posts I have shared my opinions on the Cheater and the Cheated On, but never the one who witnessed the cheating.

What would you do if you saw someone you call a close friend or more —significant’s other, cheating?

Would you tell?

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REJECTION IS PROTECTION

Rejection is Protection.

If you didn’t know, not to worry because by the end of this post you’ll know with 100% confidence.

Rejection is protection.

Yesterday afternoon, I had the most amazing conversation with my good sis Caresse.

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