The answer is no. In no way shape or form am I Sugarbaby material. I thought I’d make that clear before diving into being offered the role of someone’s Sugarbaby a few weeks ago + why I politely declined.
I mean I’m not new to the term, but for those of you who are and not familiar with “Sugarbaby” and its counterparts — let me bring you up to speed.
Women learn the most about themselves between the ages of 16 – 25, sometimes before, during, and at times after marriage. At least I’d like to think so. It’s a vital time that shapes the friend you’ll be, the type of mother to kids you’ll rear, and the wife you’ll be to your soulmate. Naturally there are things that are beneficial to learn before entering into a sacred union, such as marriage. Of course, that can’t always be the case and in some instances we have to learn through marriage. However, for those of you babes who haven’t embarked on that next phase of life — this post is for you. Meant to serve as a reminder of all you should be and do for yourself before walking down the aisle with your beloved. So in today’s post I want to shed some light on 8 Things Every Woman Must Learn Before Marriage.
Enjoy.
Have you ever looked at the life you’ve led so far and want to turn back the clock — the hand of time.
Not to change major things, but the small things — the things that seemed so insignificant at the time.
“been a minute, but I’m back — I wasn’t finished so there’s that.”
It’s the self formulated quote that kept making its presence known in my head (thinking it only right to use it as my caption for my photo detailing my return to the ‘gram lol — we’re about to get deep so I figure we’d bring some light to things before the waters get a little treacherous) as I contemplated a few things:
Practicing the art of not giving a fuck ($!%&) is actually harder than most people think. It takes a certain amount of effort and resilience to go against caring about the thoughts or opinions of others.
