I booked my first solo trip to Cabo San Lucas on a whim back in June of 2021. The first thing I’ve done for myself that truly scared me, but excited me just as equally.
I wanted to be away from everything and everyone I know and just love on me + spend time with myself in the most abstract of environments. I wanted to be changed & wanted fresh perspective. Any and everything that would make me feel like I was the center of my whole world.
Oh the perils of dating. Times have definitely changed and because of that we are now seeing a surge in online dating more than we ever did in previous years.
I mean, here’s the thing. Are people finding the love of their lives via online dating sites/apps, yes. However, in the same breath — are people also finding bullshitting inconsistent men/women?
Yes, yes, and yes.
It happens to the best of us, being triggered that is. Whether it be emotionally, physically, or both — we have all encountered things that have been harmful to the maintenance of peace within ourselves.
Hi everyone and anyone. Is anybody still here?
It’s been a while since I’ve actually sat down and written out my thoughts. Shared what I’m thinking or life experiences that I’ve seen those I love experience. I haven’t written a single thought in a while.
Which is very unlike me because at my core I love to write. After all, it’s my favorite way to express, to share. It’s how I learned to be vulnerable best.
Dating is exhausting. Meeting different men and having some of the same conversations over and over again is just… wow. It’s quite literally one of the most exhausting things I’ve done in the past couple of years.
It’s like you both are mutually interested in one another at one point and then poof, you’re not.
